Waiting on true love....

When am I ever going to meet the man that I am suppose to spend the rest of my life with? It has been a long time since I have been in a relationship with anybody or even been on a date. I have been single ever since me and my ex broke up and that was 3 and a half years ago. My ex took no time moving on from our relationship and even though he doesn't know that I know he just recently married the girl. It's funny because he has actually been hiding it from me. He hasn't told me at all and the times I have seen him he takes his wedding ring off. It makes me wonder why it's a big secret if you love the girl you should be happy and proud to show it off. Its not like I'm anybody to hide it from. Why get married just to hide it? I don't think I will ever understand men and their thought process. But I know I would be stupid to marry a guy who would hide the fact that he is married. Personally, I think its a mistake. There is a lot of lies and deception in that marriage and I think the girl was stupid to marry him but what do I know I'm just a single, lonely spinster who can't get a man to save her life. But I do know that the marriage is a mistake but it is definitely not my place to say anything and I can honestly say that I don't envy that girl at all because I would not want to be in her shoes. Anyway, I wonder when I can find a good man. I'm just waiting on the LORD to bring him into my life. I have waited all these years, I wonder how much longer I will have to wait. I just hope whenever he comes, he's in it for the long haul. I want a funny, loving man in my life. Hopefully he is honest because it is hard to come by an honest man these days. If possible, I would like to be friends first of course. I just want someone I can build and grow with and be able to trust. I have already waited 3 and a half years I pray I won't have to wait another 3 and a half.