Too perfect to be true.....

Well it looks like things with the guy I like is coming to a screeching halt. We were talking yesterday and he told that he wanted to have threesomes and when he got married he planned on having a girlfriend for him and his wife to share. I'm thinking what 30 year old thinks like this? It sounds like something a young minded 19-25 year old boy would say. You would think a 30 year old would be thinking I'm getting older and I just want to find that one person to settle down with and marry and have a family with. Just when I thought I found the absolute most perfect guy something had to be wrong with him. I wish I would have known that I would have never had a chance with him before my feelings for him started getting involved. I actually started crying because I really liked him and really wanted something to happen. He was everything I ever wanted in a man, educated, has 2 goods jobs, his own house wants a big family, he made me happy when I got to spend time with him I hated having to leave. We have only been talking to each other a little over a month nothing really has happened between us for me to be crying over him. We're still going to be friends and talk but now my expectations are low with him. I am not expecting anything from him anymore. Maybe he will change his mind one day and realize he doesn't need more than one woman to make him happy. It seems like another loss of a guy I started liking. I just knew he was too good to be true. All my dreams for us have been ruined and it was nice while it lasted. I just wish I could have got what I wanted just this once. Seems like I can never have anything to go the way I want it to. I hoped that he was put in my life for a reason to show me that I would be able to get a good man in my life and now I don't know anymore. Looks like I'm back to being alone again.